Optimistic expectations in early marriage: A resource or vulnerability for adaptive relationship functioning?

• DOI: 10.1037/a0032600
• Publication Date: 2013-05-28T18:06:10Z
• Authors: Lisa A. Neff; Andrew L. Geers
• Keywords: Constructive; Marital relationship; Vulnerability

Do optimistic expectations facilitate or hinder adaptive responses to relationship challenges? Traditionally, optimism has been characterized as a resource that encourages positive coping efforts within relationships. Yet, some work suggests can be liability, expecting the best may prevent individuals from taking proactive steps when confronted with difficulties. To reconcile these perspectives, current article argues greater attention must given way in which expectancies are conceptualized. Whereas generalized dispositional predict constructive difficulties, more focused relationship-specific forms of poor responses. A multi-method, longitudinal study newly married couples confirmed spouses higher (a) reported engaging problem-solving behaviors on days they experienced conflict, (b) were observed display discussing important marital issues their partner lab, and (c) fewer declines well-being over 1st year marriage. Conversely, high conflict days, exhibit worse lab-particularly importance-and steeper time. All findings held controlling for self-esteem neuroticism. Together, results suggest whereas global represent asset, specific place at risk deterioration.